We visited 13 homes in three days and ate way too much (see next post)! But it was fun visiting the homes of members and investigators. We went with the Sisters and our translator and his member friend to most of the houses. People were so gracious and excited to have us visit. Here are the rules for visiting at Tsagaan Sar.
- Always wear a hat until after the formal greetings. Men and women. Do not shake hands during Tsaaagan Sar unless the host initiates it.
- When entering a ger, go to the left.
- Greet the eldest person first. If there is a couple there, greet the man first and then the woman. He/she will be sitting on the north or the furthest position from the door. (Most times we WERE the oldest couple. We only gave money to four people older than us!)
- Say "amar bain yy" (peace)
- Facing him/her, put your hands under his/her elbows like you are holding him.her. The older person will put his/her arms on top of yours. The oldest person may kiss you.
- Ask how your are doing.
- You say "saikhan shinelj baina uu?" (Are you having a nice white month?)
- Have money in hand. Give it to the oldest person. The husband will greet first. Both give money.
- Hold a 1,000 T bill and give it to the oldest person. The denomination of the bill goes up the closer you are to the person.
- After you greet the oldest person(s), sit down and wait. Younger people will come and greet you. Will you put your arms on top of theirs when they greet you.
- Before touching anything with meat, you must take a spoon of white rice or something write. Be sure your hands are clean. May put the rice on your hand if you don't have a personal spoon.
- If not church members, they will hand you tea with milk. It is rude not to take it, so take it and set it down and don't drink it.
- If they offer it with one hand, take it with one hand--right hand with left hand under it. Never use left hand.
- If they pass you snuff, smell it (don't take lid off), and pass it on. Admire bottle. Receive bottle with palm up; pass on with palm down.
- When food is passed or before taking food, touch the side of the bowl before removing food.
- When you leave, the host will give you a small gift.
- If vodka is served to you, take it, dip your right ring finger in it, and flick it in three different directions Then return the drink.
- Airag--fermented mare's milk. High and low alcohol content. Personal decision. Even if not drinking it, bring it to your lips.
We were obviously the oldest in these greetings!
Snuff bottles come in a variety of styles and sizes, but are usually very beautiful
Alan receiving the snuff bottle from an investigator of a part-member family.
We spent the eve of Tsagaan Sar at Branch President Damdindorj's with his family.He showed us his snuff bottle, although we never saw him use it!
He is a regal and proud Mongolian, and really looks it in his deel, Mongolian boots, belt and hat! He's really a great guy and his family has been so warm and welcoming to us!
This is he and his wife. They are standing behind their Edtoo (sp) and the sheep's back on their table.
Mongolian really know how to slick every piece of meat off a bone. It is literally bare when they finish!
Alan likes to do service at the homes we visit. He used to cut and/or bring in wood in Murun, but here they burn coal so he usually brings in a bucket or bag of coal. Here he is emptying water brought from the local well house into the large water storage container in the home!
Sister Onan and Sister Bulgan in their Mongolian deels and Tsagaan Sar hats! The hats were handmade for them by a branch member.
This is our district with our translator, Gambold, in the middle.
We visited some wonderful people!
President Damdindorj and his family.
While at the branch presidents, Martbold started to play the Moren Hore, a Mongolian two-string horse hair violin. It plays 28 notes. He was good and it sounded beautiful. Alan decided to give it a try!
Sukee and her granddaughter. (Gotta love the hats, huh?)
Purvee. One of the older ones we gave money to!
Altish and Munkhtuya--The only place we were offered vodka!

Chimgee, return missionary daughter and investigator husband.
Sarantuya--Relief Society President. Her mother was visiting and was older than us!
Baatar, Suvaa, Tumee and daughter who is investigating the church.
This is Enkhbaatar and his family. He was just recently baptized and his wife is a non-member. His son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter are all members.
Munkhtaven, Oyuntuya (branch members who visited with us), Munkhbayar, Munkhtuya, us and the sisters.
Shijigbaatar (EQ President) and none-member wife and us. This is
Oktobri's father--a sister who worked in the English Department in UB!
These are the oldest members of the branch--Jugder, Lhagvaa and daughter, Gerlee.
Chuka, Chimgee and children.
Gerelchimeg and non-member husband and family.
Here are some of the gifts we were so generously given during Tsagaan Sar.
We even had some visitors to our house. First, we had Munkhtaven and Munkhtuya. Their visit
was totally unexpected, but so nice and considerate of them. This is Munkhtaven greeting LaNice.
We had not really prepared any Tsagaan Sar food, so we served them lasagna and juice. Not your traditional meal, but they seemed to enjoy it!
Children knock on doors of strangers in the quest for a small gift or candy, similar to our Trick-or-Treating. These two young ones were decked out in traditional Mongolian dress. The whole family was gracious enough to pose for a picture.
This little guy was visiting one of the members and he had made a pretty good haul for himself!
TRAVELING TO TSAGAAN SAR!
We walked to most of the places we visited. Here Gambold, our translator, and Martbold, his friend, are walking on about 3 foot diameter pipes that carry the hot water to heat the homes.
Here we are about 8 kilometers from town and are hoping to quickly catch a taxi home!
Some people rode horses to visit. That would have been fun, but we didn't get to do it!
We ate so much that we were glad to walk between houses! The exercise felt great!
These little guys really had the best ride! They were having so much
fun pulling each other on the sled!
We survived and thoroughly enjoyed (mostly) the one and only Tsagaan Sar we will
experience while in Mongolia! HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!